When is the Right Time to Connect with Passed Loved Ones?
When is the right time to connect for a medium?
A question I have been asked recently is when is the right time to connect with someone in spirit? Is there a time delay between the passing of a loved one and their ability to connect to a medium? This is a great question! The soul can come through immediately after passing. So, the short answer is that any time is the right time as far as your loved ones in spirit are concerned. What might surprise you is that mediums like me can connect with someone’s spirit before they pass as well.
There are certain circumstances where a person’s body is physically alive, but their spirit isn’t fully present. Such circumstances can include when someone is in a coma, experiencing Alzheimer’s, or otherwise such as on heavy medication (both prescribed and illegal). When someone is in such a state, it is possible to connect with their spirit on a deeper level, seeking to communicate with them through the help of a psychic medium. This connection can facilitate understanding and potentially provide comfort to both the individual and their loved ones during challenging times. Sometimes the right time to connect can be before some passes.
How I learned the right time to connect can be before someone passes
I realized that I could talk to people and their souls in the spirit realm while they were alive during readings. People will say oh well that's my grandmother on my mom's side but she's still alive and I'm speaking to her in the same way that I would speak to someone who has passed. I can tell by the way that I'm being shown the memories, how it's coming through, and the way that it feels. The structure of the reading is different instead of it being like a psychic reading which is how living souls come through.
When the person in spirit has Alzheimer's or dementia, I’ll ask the spirit to show me where they are and what they're doing and about their cognitive function so then I can explain to the sitter what it is. Their soul is doing a dance in between the physical realm and the spiritual realm. I'm working with people that are still alive, but their Alzheimer’s or dementia has progressed. They might be in a long-term facility care center and they may not know their name or know the names of their loved ones or why they're there. I've connected with a lot of people that are in that state already before they pass and have helped the family members with peace knowing that they’ve done everything they possibly can do and that at this time it's that they need professional help.
I have also connected for people that are in a coma state whether it's medically induced or on their own for any sort of reason. It could be an accident; it could be something tragic. I tell their loved ones what they understand and what they see from the spirit world. I had someone book with me in years past and they wanted to know what to do, and I'll tell you right now I am not going to give someone directive on whether or not you should pull the plug or end someone's life. That is definitely not what I'm comfortable with in a session like this, but when I connected to that person, I was able to differentiate the memories that he had with both the people in front of me.
What I didn't realize at first is that it was his first wife and his current wife and that they both shared children with him. I knew which was which person, who was the mother of which child, and there was a lot of loving evidence of the relationships. Who he was and how things went came through, and we started conversations around what was going on currently and how they were handling it. Ultimately understanding that the current wife had to make a difficult decision and giving them lots of compassion and love for everything that they've experienced. To me it felt like I was talking with someone with a soul that had already crossed into the spirit realm. At that point he was being kept alive on a machine.
A person that has used severe drugs and isn't “in their bodies” can also come through similar to the gentleman who was in a coma. It's almost like they're just not in their physical bodies and it kind of just feels like experiencing life but without feelings. It's like a viewpoint of someone's soul watching them while they're here making all kinds of decisions. You get the details of where they're at, who they're around, what they're doing, and any apologies that they need to say if that's something that they want to do. They may give an explanation as to why they made certain decisions and what they're feeling or how they're experiencing the world right now, but it comes through very much like they're not in a state of being fully present in their body. It’s almost as if nobody's home so it's more or less a psychic reading but you're talking about somebody else in the physical realm who's not fully present.
When is the right time to connect with a psychic mediumship reading YOU?
A psychic mediumship reading is when a medium like me connects you with a discarnate soul or connects with your highest self in the spirit realm to give you messages of love and healing. Most people have described feeling their loved ones in the room, complete peace and calm, a clearer understanding, and at times closer or resolution about a topic we cover. I find that often my readings help my clients align their head and their heart. I am here to empower people with their healing. My intention is to provide you with as much evidence and healing messages as possible. My work with spirit is always unique to the individual and the relationship between the two of you.
The question that matters most for connecting with a loved one in spirit is when is the right time for YOU, the sitter. And the short answer there is that it totally depends! It depends on the sitter. The soul of a loved one comes through for the sitter when the sitter is ready, and when it will serve their highest good. Some of us may be ready immediately after the passing of a loved one and others may not be ready for years. If you are feeling a pull to connect with a passed loved one, that is a signal that you are ready.
